In last week’s post, I discussed how sometimes there are certain flaws we as women cannot live with. And I've previously mentioned about how some flaws aren't worth loving through. So in this post I thought I'd give the mens a break and write about accepting that Your Man May Not Be Perfect!
I was introduced to the eight twenty rule after watching Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married". For those who are unfamiliar with the rule, the movie explains it basically like this...
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Have you ever dated a man that was absolutely wonderful? Treated you like the queen you are? Shared a lot of the qualities you were dreaming of in a man? And yet... you still find yourself not exactly into him? Or not liking him as much as you thought you would?
If so...I know exactly how you felt!
Sometimes a good man is not enough.
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So my guy friend casually asked me the other day...
Why do women lie?
And I responded with why does anyone lie?
Because they don't want to share the truth! Duhh!!
But then he got me thinking, and so I've composed the TOP Three Reasons a Woman Lies to a Man!
Yes ladies I'm airing out some of our dirty laundry, but I promise it’s for educational purposes only.
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6:24:00 PM
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There can be a multitude of reasons for why someone has a hard time getting over their ex and moving on.
Fear of being on their own.
Their love for them is extremely deep.
They can't get past the pain.
That ex won't let them.
As I said in the previous post...
The key to getting over an ex is attacking the reason why it’s become so hard for you. If you've done all my suggestions and found that although you’re in a much better place than before you are still having a hard time letting the relationship go, it is no fault to you or to me but your journey requires additional soul searching and time. And that's okay. As I've said, some people take years to get over an ex.
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Special Thanksgiving Day Post!
A special reader sent me a question that kicked my butt trying to come up with a truthful, helpful, and realistic response. You see this question is a topic I haven't fully mastered myself. But of course, I've made sure that this post will be all of the above and hopefully a little more.
"How to get over an ex?"
I believe that getting over an ex-partner should be the easiest part of being in a relationship. I mean, after all you've went through, all the drama and pain and frustration, adjusting to life without all of those negative things should be easy... But for a lot of people it’s the hardest part. That's why this topic kicked my butt because there is no set formula to getting over a past relationship. But, I've researched and soul searched =) and evaluated how I've handled this kind of topic in the past and reviewed what did work and what did not work.
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Why a good man USED to be hard to find?
I thought this would be a great topic to start of the new month. And after getting a few stories that seemed to be the same problem, I decided this would be an appropriate time to get extremely real.
A Good Man!
We all want one whether we admit it to ourselves or not. But are ladies still looking for one?
Of course Mandizzy.
Why would women be looking for a bad one?!
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