Male Best Friends & All the Other Guy Friends you Shouldn't Have Tried
By Mandizzy 5:47:00 PM admirers, bestfriends, crushes, friendship, Honesty, love, men, relationships, sex, women
Men are incapable of separating, we use to have sex from we no longer have sex. -Steve Harvey
I loved that statement when I heard it. And it totally goes along with Trey Songz "Can't be Friends".
Once a female and her male friend take it to the next level, there is literally no going back. And if in the process you spread your legs for him... He will forever see you as the friend or lover he had sex with, not as just the friend. And because it becomes so difficult for that male friend to separate the two different roles, the friendship may suffer.
So I may offend a lot of my male friends with this post but... so what?!
Remember how I told you guys that its best to make a lesson to live by out of disappointment and hard learned mistakes?
...Well one of my recent personal rules is to not date any of my guy friends. CRAZY!
I know! I'm nuts!
After all don't most relationships start out as "just friends"??
I loved that statement when I heard it. And it totally goes along with Trey Songz "Can't be Friends".
Once a female and her male friend take it to the next level, there is literally no going back. And if in the process you spread your legs for him... He will forever see you as the friend or lover he had sex with, not as just the friend. And because it becomes so difficult for that male friend to separate the two different roles, the friendship may suffer.
So I may offend a lot of my male friends with this post but... so what?!
Remember how I told you guys that its best to make a lesson to live by out of disappointment and hard learned mistakes?
...Well one of my recent personal rules is to not date any of my guy friends. CRAZY!
I know! I'm nuts!
After all don't most relationships start out as "just friends"??
I'm entirely too serious about this new rule. You see, I use to be a strong believer in guys and girls being capable of being just friends but I should have been more specific with what I meant.
Guys and girls can only be friends if they don't have feelings for each other. No attraction. No fantasy. No what ifs! Strictly platonic relationships that grow out of a mutual connection based on nothing other than a click in personalities. Is that specific enough?
