It’s time I sever a few friendships for good!
Ok.
I’m being a bit dramatic but this topic will definitely rub a few of your friends the wrong way.

It’s time to stop loosing your good girlfriends over dick. Yes. I’ve finally said it. You are literally losing homies because of a body part.

Now I’ve touched on this topic in the past. I’ve made it very clear that to be a good friend you often have to let your adult friends make their own adult mistakes. Because in all seriousness, how else do we learn? Through experiences.

But with that being said I’m allowed to call out these girls who learn the lesson and still hold a grudge against the friend who told them so!

You can’t be mad that they were right and you were made to look the fool. You can’t be in your feelings about a situation that played out exactly how they called it. You have to let that resentment go. You have to swallow your pride and admit you missed the mark on this one. And especially because the mark was a penis you knew was never worthy of you in the first place.

Keep the same energy you had when you thought you made the right choice when you find out the choice wasn’t even on the right or wrong spectrum. (It was just that bad of a situation.)

We are so quick to let pride get in the way of a good thing. We have to be willing to realize how short life is and how rare real friends are. So when the person that knows and loves you says the dude your dating isn’t it... she’s not always a hater. She’s probably just trying to avoid having to nurse you back to life. Although that in it self is selfish, it’s entirely reasonable!

So trust those girl friends but if you truly want to follow your own path, do you booboo!! But if it doesn’t go as planned! Remember to apologize to the homie who thought they knew best. And also remember to Trust Me, because you knew I Couldn’t Lie.



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Time! The biggest and most frustrating aspect of human existence. Especially because it can be your best friend and your worst enemy but when it comes to relationships it usually can become even more tricky. Distance from your significant other usually means times a part. A big chunk of what makes a relationship thrive is the physical time together (and I'm not just referring to sex you pervs). Time together is extremely important so how should one deal with the time a part if their significant other is away for school or work.

The reality is that so many people deal with distance from their significant others all the time, don't feel like your the only person dealing with the burdens distance can bring. Think of all the soldiers whose wives, husbands and other significant others have to deal with the absence for sometimes years at a time. Some may argue that long distance relationships don't last, or they don't end up working out and that is partly true. But that reflects only a fraction of couples. I feel that these types of relationships test the strongest people. And they are no indication of how someone feels about their partner. Just because your relationship doesn''t work out with your babe doesn't infer that you didn't love them. Case and point. Just because you love someone doesn't mean that its okay to stay with them while he cheats with other women on his business trips. There will always be a reason for a break up but distance does not have to be one of them.

So here are some helpful tips you can use to ensure that distance does not cause the demise to your relationship.