"What is the one thing you would ask a man to work on, no matter the stage in the relationship, because I always felt like when you're getting to know each other, you should do just that, and not expect him to be perfect, but I'm really curious to know, if anything, what would you ask a man to work on at any stage in the relationship?"

Well my fantabulous reader, this may be my favorite question asked yet!

The one thing I would ask any guy no matter the stage in the relationship to work on is CONSISTENCY. And I really feel that a lot of my female readers can relate. By consistency, I simply mean to remain the person I met and not to change your entire personality practically overnight.

There are few things more daunting, annoying and downright unattractive than a man that changes his MO in a relationship.

How does it feel to stop crying?

The most simple question I've probably ever heard but one of the most difficult questions I've had to answer.

One of my fantabulous readers explained to me that I should write more  about my own personal experiences in love to "really suck in my audience".

Well nosy reader, this blog is for you!

My uber super supportive friend asked me how did it feel to stop crying after I cut off and emotionally let go an ex boyfriend. And I remember not being able to put into actual words at the time to how I felt.

But I can definitely say now, the number one feeling I've had is PEACE. It is so important to have and maintain peace in ones life. The stress from a bad relationship can truly affect your life.
It can affect your appetite, your performance at work and often your overall mood. I've even witnessed it change someone's personality completely.
That is why for me, leaving your bad situation should be all about bringing peace back into your life. The constant fighting, the crying and the stress could never be worth it in the end.